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Christ loved the church (His people) with compassion, mercy, forgiveness, respect, and selflessness. This leadership should not be dictatorial, condescending, or patronizing to the wife, but should be in accordance with the example of Christ leading the church. The husband is to assume leadership in the home (Ephesians 5:23-26). When both partners make becoming more like Christ their individual goal, a strong, vibrant Christian marriage begins to take shape.Ī Christian marriage begins with the understanding that the Bible gives a clear description of the roles of husband and wife-found primarily in Ephesians 5-and a commitment to fulfilling those roles. Many young Christians don’t even realize this actually is the goal, but the presence of the Holy Spirit within each of them works with them, maturing each one so that the goal of Christlikeness becomes increasingly clear to them. This is not to say that all Christians, when they marry, immediately begin to work toward this goal. Non-Christians may have many goals for their marriage, but Christlikeness is not one of them. When two people are united in Christ, their goal is to grow in Christlikeness throughout the life of the marriage. He knows his responsibility, and the more civil you are the more willing he will be to assist you when you really and truly need it.The primary difference between a Christian marriage and a non-Christian marriage is that Christ is the center of the marriage. You make the man not want to call or come by because you are always nagging! Men don’t want to deal with that all the time, they will rather just disappear. When you are constantly nagging him about petty things you are only hurting the child. Being the custodial parent means where you live, your child lives, when you eat, your child eats etc… so why call the man for money? If he is a real man he will do what he can for his child, so don’t try to force him to do something he can’t! If he is a real man, he has a household that he has to provide for also. You chose to get pregnant, keep the child and be the custodial parent, so it is YOUR responsibility to take care of the child no matter what. If you are a ” baby mama” now, it is not to late to become the mother of his child! You have to focus on you and your child.

She uses the child against him, she makes it difficult for him to see the child. Does what ever she can to make his life difficult.

When she calls and the new wife answers she either hangs up or gets an attitude. She is very disrespectful to the new girlfriend or wife. The child support she gets does not go toward the child. Once the relationship is over she will continue to pester him about anything. She is someone who is met in a club, at the mall or picked up on the street. Now as for a Baby Mama, a baby mama is typically a trifling female. When she calls to speak with him and his wife or girlfriend answers the phone, she doesn’t hang up or get an attitude. If the new wife loves the child enough to want to call and speak with the child a mother of his child doesn’t have a problem with that. If the man moves on and finds another women, a mother of his child doesn’t interfere and she respects the relationship. The money she does receive (no matter how small) goes to the CHILD for clothes or whatever else the CHILD needs. She is understanding when he looses his job or falls on hard times. She does not constantly hound him for money. A mother of his child is someone who doesn’t use the child to get back at him. Well I am here to tell you.Ī mother of his child is a women who, once the relationship (no matter if it was a marriage or just a fling) is over accepts it and moves on. Ladies, you may ask what is the difference between a mother of his child and a baby mama.